Yes, I am returning to KL soon, after being posted in Melbourne for almost 11 months. When I started to inform my friends of the return, 8 out of 10 asked me the below questions.
“Oh, are you coming back for good?”
“Why not extend your stay, you don’t like it there?”
What are these questions suppose to mean? First, I was intended to post here for 11 months ONLY on a project and it was made clearly to everyone that knew me coming to Melbourne. Second, my company has no intention of extending my visa, because the plan was to gain experience from the project here and transfer the skills to projects around ASEAN. Third, why is it everyone will assume me that I want to become PR or citizen in Australia knowing my “pattern” (The history of me abandoning my UK working visa 5 years ago and choose to go back KL).
Have I been away for so long? Or am I not welcome back home till most of my friends now thinking that I “migrated” to Australia? I actually felt quite agitated when people asked me those questions. Next time when I tell you I am returning, just say “Welcome back” with a hug or fullstop. No more silly questions, please.
And I am saying out loud here again…YES, I AM GOING HOME! with a big smile on my face. Do welcome me back… because it could be just a short encounter as I am likely to travel for work again.